We Left the City and Never Ever Looked Back

If you ever imagine a new beginning in the nation, you're not alone. Hear what it resembles from three households who really made the leap.
Who hasn't imagined dumping city life and moving to the nation? Maybe you have actually invested weekend trips scanning the regional property listings, baffled by how far a dollar can extend: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the jump, moving from Seattle to a small summer town in Maine. I began photographing these people and interviewing them about their triumphs and challenges in transitioning to country living. The job took flight instantly-- clearly I wasn't the only one believing about leaving the city.

Don't take it from me. Hear it from these three households who left the city behind for a clean slate.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can learn more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Nation.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a family of New Yorkers discovered an eccentric house in the Berkshires at a 3rd the expense of their city coop, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were residing in what many New york city families would think about a dream situation-- a three-bedroom cage apartment in a preferable Brooklyn neighborhood. It sufficed space for their family of 5, with no worry of a lease walking. To pay for living in the city, however, both Kenzie and Shawn needed to work long hours. Shawn, a painter and illustrator, worked as a studio assistant for an established artist and was just able to develop his own work in his off hours.

When Kenzie's moms and dads moved to the Berkshires, an innovative center in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields household came for a go to and began dreaming of leaving the city behind. "It felt like an inspired idea," keeps in mind Shawn. "On what I thought was a lark, we looked at a house in a town with an excellent little school," states Shawn.

Moved to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their family to New Marlborough. "Residing in a village in the nation was a good response for us," states Kenzie. "We're steps from a post workplace, library, automobile mechanic and a general shop. We live throughout from a rushing creek, which is soothing. There's no deafening rural silence. Rural does not have to indicate vast and empty."

Instead of continuing to work hard to further the professions of other artists, the couple chose to focus their efforts on building Shawn's fine-art company. Quiting their constant city incomes while taking on the costs of winter heating and caring for an old house hasn't been a cakewalk, but they can't think of returning to the confined boundaries of city living.

Entering their house resembles strolling into among Shawn's narrative paintings. On a normal day, their child, Honey, may welcome you in the lawn with an animal rabbit, their kid Peter may follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other child Odie might offer to perform a magic technique. They have actually gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to change their cottage into a comfortable, quirky wonderland.

The kids have much more liberty to check out now-- they spend hours playing in the creek by their house and volunteering at the library down the street. And they have actually all seen, states Kenzie, that "the opportunity to care is more present when you run out the overwhelming scale of a city. When my mother died, individuals we didn't know well left entire meals on our patio."

They love the natural setting of their brand-new life, states Kenzie. "Playing charades with our neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, town hall conferences.

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet found the peaceful he needs to write-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a small Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's second inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today influenced the country. What the majority of people don't know is that, recalling, he's unsure he would have been able to compose the poem if he had not been confined to his writing desk, surrounded by pine forests stacked high with snow, up on a mountainside in his brand-new house in St Louis, Missouri.

Before transferring to Maine, Richard lived the majority of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and composing in his extra time when his partner, Mark, got a job that required the couple to relocate to the tiny ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Although Richard was a little worried in the beginning, he was excited at the prospect of leaving the traffic and noise of city life and having the opportunity to compose more.

Being the kid of Cuban exiles and an immigrant himself, who had actually pertained to San Antonio as a baby, Richard has actually constantly longed to discover a place where he belongs. A predominant theme in his writing is what it requires to make a location seem like home. And he now recognizes that living in the country was a natural for him. "I believe I have actually always wanted to move to the nation," he says. "I always had an attraction to it, specifically given that I went back to Cuba to visit in my teenagers. The majority of my family is from rural locations in Cuba, and I felt extremely in the house there."

Relocated to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't know how this village would receive them, however they have been happily surprised. St Louis has actually invited "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were referred to for a while, with open arms. Richard is a reputable member of the community and-- given that the inauguration-- a town celebrity.

However it's been an adjustment. "After that honeymoon stage, the first thing that started to scold on me was needing to drive everywhere," says Richard. And shopping is challenging: "I reside in a resort town, so I can get sushi, but I can't get inkjet cartridges or underwear." To his surprise, he also missed out on heading out: "Sometimes you just wish to dress up and feel magnificent-- and there is nowhere to do that. I've outgrown all my fits living here." He also misses the anonymity of city life: "There is no such thing as just a waiter in St Louis. You understand their entire life, and you know their children, where they grew up ... and they know everything about you. It's stunning, however sometimes Mark and I will desire to go out to talk about something over dinner and ... the walls have ears."

"After a year of battling the components, I had to make decisions about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," states Richard. "I got a little carried away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended my site up not enjoying what I initially came here for.

After moving to the nation, Richard at first continued to work from another location on agreement engineering tasks, however the more affordable expense of living in Maine permitted him to move focus and prioritize his poetry. And since 2013, he's been able to work almost entirely as a writer, leaving his engineering profession behind.

He offers the location where he lives a great deal of credit for all this. Life in the nation has provided him space and time to focus on his writing. And possibly more notably, it has actually finally given him a place that seems like house.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise service difficulty turned these Silicon Valley entrepreneurs into a household of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A couple of years ago, Joe and Ashley Duggers owned and operated 11 services in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a discovering center, a maker space, a floral designer shop and a play space for young children, just to call a few. All this in addition to raising 4 women under the age of six. They valued their busy, complete lives but stressed that the affluence of Silicon Valley would offer their daughters a manipulated point of view on the world.

This led them to a brand-new potential venture-- running a livestock ranch that could supply meat to their restaurant. The residential or commercial property had two houses, one a historic Victorian in desperate need of repair and one a cozy two-bedroom cabin. They jumped in and purchased the property in 2013, hoping to one day discover a method to move to the cattle ranch full time.

Transferred to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
The Duggers' original plan was to work with ranchers to run the business. Joe and Ashley would increase on weekends so the women could spend time running complimentary in the outdoors. "We constantly had a desire to raise our kids in wide open spaces in a more rural community," says Ashley. "Joe matured on a farm and hoped we 'd return to the land at some point. After coming up every weekend for a number of months and discovering a gem of a community here, we rapidly decided this was where we desired to raise our children. We offered our services and moved up the day our earliest daughter ended up kindergarten and have actually been all-in since."

After 4 years of tough work, the Duggers have built a successful pasture-raised meat company. Looking for more ways to make a living off the land, this year they introduced Five Ashley Retreats, where they host ladies at their hillside ranch camp for a weekend of farm chores and cooking classes.

The Duggers do not have the conveniences, tidy clothes or free time they had in their previous life, and have actually had to become more self-dependent: "In the city, I might get anything done at the drop of a hat," says Ashley. Whatever moves a bit more gradually, but living on a cattle ranch implies you can construct anything you can picture yourself, which is more gratifying than employing somebody to do it."

Another payoff is seeing their women grow into courageous, hardworking and independent free-range women. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe love to mix a cocktail, put a 5 Ashley roast in the oven and sit on their front deck to see their children run complimentary in the backyard.

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